June 2013
16 posts
Kittens and Feminisms: assfcuker: ok so lemme do a short thing about virginity/ tightness of... →
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ok so lemme do a short thing about virginity/ tightness of vagina. Your vagina gets looser as you become more sexually aroused during intercourse. This is why when you normally put a finger in your vagina, its a lot tighter than when you put it in when you’re aroused. The myth that the vagina is tighter is caused by 2 things
1) cis men love the idea of “ruining” a woman’s body (as shown by porn) and they get some sort of sick pleasure from thinking that after having sex with a woman, she will never be the same again.
2) women are more anxious during their first time, which results in them being less sexually aroused and their vagina being more contracted.
if your have kids young enough, your vagina will literally return to it’s previous tightness. That’s how elastic it is. There is no way your vagina becomes “looser after having sex with lots of men”. that’s just slut shame-y bullshit.
Men who brag about shit like “her pussy was tight as hell for me. I ruined that pussy” are just bragging about the fact that they couldnt sexually arouse her enough for her to loosen enough. Which means they are awful at sex. They are bragging about being fucking awful at sex.
The only time your vagina becomes looser is with age and after multiple births.
Anyone who tell you differently is dumb.
Happy father's day
To everyone, even if you never knew your dad, even if you never want any ‘kids’ other than pets.
My bf, and my dad, grew up with single moms and they both celebrated the day by talking to their mom’s, which I think is really sweet.
I think there is a lot of pride to be taken in being a good parent no matter what the situation.
Woman Who Sought Abortion in El Salvador Forced to Deliver Despite Doctors' Warnings →
nytimes.com
For months, doctors had warned the woman, Beatriz, who has lupus and related illnesses, that as the pregnancy progressed, she could become seriously ill or even die. The fetus, they said, had anencephaly, a birth defect where parts of the brain and skull are missing, and almost no chance of survival. The A.P. reported that Beatriz, who has asked that her last name be withheld to protect her identity, was recovering in the hospital and that her baby daughter was born without a brain.
Beatriz’s case has convulsed the region, which is known for having some of the world’s most stringent abortion laws, particularly Chile, El Salvador and Nicaragua, which have bans on the procedure. Other countries in the region have been moving toward changes in recent years.
In a 4-to-1 ruling last Wednesday, the country’s Supreme Court denied an appeal from Beatriz, citing the country’s legal “absolute impediment to authorize the practice of abortion.”
Right now she’s recovering, but we don’t know what her health is really like now. Let’s just hope for the best.
“Pro-life” realities again, everybody! This is awful, for a second there I thought she was actually going to rightfully be allowed to have an abortion. Guess not. At least she lived.
I don’t care if you hate Madonna’s music, or her attitude, or think she’s a “slut” - which is a made up concept, or “old” (another thing male singers never get called) or a sellout, or whatever the fuck makes you happy, but you can’t pretend she’s not smart and you can’t pretend she’s not so relevant that “relevant” is an understatement. While she created none of the following things individually or first, she single-handedly introduced the combination of unapologetic feminism in the mainstream media. There is a difference between not liking someone and being culturally ignorant.